Questions to ask her... (Part 3) 


Dudes! (& Dude-ts)













Today we focus on the third part of
the "Questions to ask her" topic we started on Tuesday... Well
without wasting time, let's get into it.







Firstly what could qualify as a deep
question? In my view, the one that attempts to unveil all the mysteries that
the female has hidden within herself with regards to the relationship between
both of you.







For some thought-provoking, personal
questions, here are my top picks:







What is intimacy for you?

According to you, what makes for a perfect man?

What is your saddest memory?

What is the most important thing taught to you by your family?

What is your biggest fear? What turns you off the most?

When you pray, whom do you pray for? How many kids would you like to have?

What does a good relationship look like? What was the most frightening moment
of your life? Have you ever been cheated- If yes, how? Have you ever taken any
antidepressants or anxiety medication? Do you think of me as the only one you
could tell anything and everything to? Which is the song that makes you cry? Do
you give out second chances too easily? How would you feel if I told you I still
have feelings for my ex? Do you regret any of your decisions- What are they? Which
advise do you think was the best that you have received? Who would be that one
celebrity you'd want to switch life with? Would you want to spend your New Year's
eve partying with friends, or a romantic dinner with me? Which is that one
thing you're immensely passionate about? Do you think we could dwell into a
'live-in' relationship?







For now we can look at that, I’d love
to hear your thoughts about it… Or if you have more to ask, shoot!







Over and out- tomorrow we focus on
the 4th part (last part), see you then.

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