Tebogo Temana

During a robbery in Guangzhou, China, the bank robber shouted to everyone in the bank: " Don't move. The money belongs to the State. Your life belongs to you. " Everyone in the bank lay down quietly. This is called “ Mind Changing Concept ” Changing the conventional way of thinking. When a lady lay on the table provocatively, the robber shouted at her: " Please be civilized! This is a robbery and not a rape ! " This is called " Being Professional ” Focus only on what you are trained to do! When the bank robbers returned home, the younger robber (MBA-trained) told the older robber (who has only completed Year 6 in primary school): " Big brother, let's count how much we got. " The older robber rebutted and said: " You are very stupid. There is so much money it will take us a long time to count. Tonight, the TV news will tell us how much we robbed from the bank! " This is called " Experience. ” Nowadays, ...

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent t...